I was asked recently for a copy of a ‘Celebration of Marriage Vows’ order of service (from my parish days as Vicar of St Paul’s, Glen Waverley, Victoria – a number of years ago!).

Here is a copy for you to view: Celebration of Marriage Vows order of service

Joy and tears of deep emotion surrounded the couples affirming their vows as the held hands facing each other and repeated the solemn words of their marriage vows. Oh, how deep the love that journeys through the weeks and months and years!

Even after all these years, I can still remember the emotion of the day and the impact that this had on the lives of the couples, their children, grandchildren, parents, members of their bridal party and friends who all took part in this ‘Celebration of Marriage Vows’ service.

As well as the actual service, we all enjoyed the cutting of the cake (by the oldest couple), tables lovingly prepared with afternoon tea for the reception, wedding photos to guess the identity of the couples! I am sure there were other details – it was a terrific celebration!

You might like to organise a service similar to this – a celebration to connect with the history of parishioners, their family and friends, and the wider community.

See also, Men and Women in Marriage and Excellent Marriage