{"id":15956,"date":"2017-11-20T17:33:06","date_gmt":"2017-11-20T06:33:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/?p=15956"},"modified":"2017-11-20T15:05:09","modified_gmt":"2017-11-20T04:05:09","slug":"dealing-with-trauma-pastoral-exploration","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/2017\/11\/20\/dealing-with-trauma-pastoral-exploration\/","title":{"rendered":"Dealing with Trauma? &#8211; pastoral exploration"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\"><em>My\u00a0&#8216;Pearce Memorial Lecture&#8217; delivered at the OSL Healing Ministries Triennial Conference Melbourne October 2017:<\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\">When discussing a person who is suffering from trauma, how many of you have you heard someone comment, <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\">\u201cGet over it!\u201d <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\">\u201cPray believing!\u201d <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\">\u201cGo for a walk, get some fresh air, smell the roses.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\">But, &#8220;No!&#8221; \u2013 A flippant dismissal of trauma is a gross misunderstanding of trauma. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\">Tragedy strikes and trauma follows. Although the effects of the violence (emotional, physical, intellectual and spiritual) may lag the tragic event by years, trauma does come.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\">Trauma from tragic events accumulates through life and can grow to become a toll too heavy to bear. When a person is suffering from trauma, they feel down, down, down! Crying, weeping, hopeless and alone, despairing, a failure, embarrassed, humiliated. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\">But neither is wallowing in trauma with the tears, sadness, brokenness and hopelessness an option. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\">Is it possible to deal with trauma at all? And if so, how? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;font-family: Calibri\">Let me say at the outset that I make no claims to professional expertise in the area of trauma or dealing with its consequences. My aim this evening is to learn from the experience of four people in Australia who have suffered traumatic events as well as a key character in each of two novels (&#8216;Les Miserables&#8217; and &#8216;Cry, the Beloved Country&#8217;) in order that we might better walk with sufferers of trauma. This is a pastoral and personal exploration of a complex and pain laden issue. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dealing with Trauma? \u2013 a pastoral and personal exploration <\/strong>is the Pearce Memorial Lecture delivered at the OSL Healing Ministries Triennial Conference Melbourne Oct 2017.<\/p>\n<p>Lecture here, <a href=\"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/files\/2017\/11\/Dealing-with-Trauma-OSL-Pearce-Memorial-Lecture-2017-John-Harrower.pdf\">Dealing with Trauma &#8211; OSL Pearce Memorial Lecture 2017 &#8211; John Harrower<\/a><\/p>\n<p>A report on the Lecture,\u00a0<em>&#8216;Trauma is serious get help says Bishop Harrower&#8217;<\/em> by\u00a0Stephen Cauchi, is in The Melbourne Anglican (monthly paper), November 2017, No. 564,\u00a0p.12.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My\u00a0&#8216;Pearce Memorial Lecture&#8217; delivered at the OSL Healing Ministries Triennial Conference Melbourne October 2017: When discussing a person who is suffering from trauma, how many of you have you heard someone comment, \u201cGet over it!\u201d \u201cPray believing!\u201d \u201cGo for a &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/2017\/11\/20\/dealing-with-trauma-pastoral-exploration\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15956"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15956"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15956\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15970,"href":"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15956\/revisions\/15970"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15956"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15956"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/imaginarydiocese.org\/bishopjohn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15956"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}